I've been on the "demanding an explanation" side before, and, looking back, I think all I wanted was some closure. I hope you find a way to move on, either by having that talk or in any other way.
Oh. .n.
Damn, woman. I pretty much knew you both only by name, but I rooted for you two as a couple. It kinda hurts to see it ended this way. I hope you find someone worthy of your love eventually, so your heart can heal.
I don't know what to say right now, but this: What an badly ignoble end to a relationship. And I thought it was going steady.
I I have no words that can express my feelings at the moment nor do I want to paint ideas of people with any unsavory comments atm. But damn.
There's always the uncertainty of what might have been said - or written as the case may be. While I think not knowing would nag at me, there's unlikely to be anything satisfying inside, in the end. Whatever might be written was best said in person or not at al and a letter on the bed is a poor compromise between The Talk and skulking away in the night. I totally respect not giving it the upper hand of being a one-sides goodbye. Not knowing either of your circumstances in enough detail to judge, I'll just say how sorry I am it didn't work, for whatever reasons it didn't. I'm sure he sees and tells the story differently but what matters is the one each of you take away with you. Try not to let it be one that haunts you and find happiness where you go next. I was pretty surprised you aired this here, honestly, but seeing why you decided to at the end explained it... Whatever else anyone thinks about how it comes off, that's brave, since I'd definitely hesitate if it were me, even if I didn't intend to come back. I'm sorry things didn't work out. i hope for happiness in the future and it'd be nice to see you again!
Honestly I don't even know how to respond to this turn of events. I've been completely blindsided and don't even know what to think. A shame this had to be like this, in many ways.
Originally Posted by EXiku I would have hoped that if these four years meant anything to Five_X at all, that he would have the decency, integrity and respect to end things properly with a fair talk - that's the least that he owes me. A letter denies my right to say anything, and I thought my loyalty, love, support, respect and forgiveness would have at least earned me the chance to say my piece in response, face-to-face. Oh, I agree. It's more of a, "I might as well make the best of what I'm given." sort of mentality. That's the cold hard unfeeling part of me speaking, anyway. I absolutely understand your reasoning and would probably feel the same in your situation. I can't really offer much else to say, but if you need to vent more I'll always be around to listen.
I would have hoped that if these four years meant anything to Five_X at all, that he would have the decency, integrity and respect to end things properly with a fair talk - that's the least that he owes me. A letter denies my right to say anything, and I thought my loyalty, love, support, respect and forgiveness would have at least earned me the chance to say my piece in response, face-to-face. Originally Posted by Lianru I haven't talked with you much on BL, but it's always sad to see someone go who you know is well-liked around the community. Circumstances like this make it especially sad. The robot in me recommends that you read your letter. No matter how you feel about it, it's always good to hear out the other side of things. Hopefully you find it in your heart to forgive (difficult though it is). I wish you the best as you move on.
I haven't talked with you much on BL, but it's always sad to see someone go who you know is well-liked around the community. Circumstances like this make it especially sad. The robot in me recommends that you read your letter. No matter how you feel about it, it's always good to hear out the other side of things. Hopefully you find it in your heart to forgive (difficult though it is). I wish you the best as you move on.
Originally Posted by Draconic I have to say, you sound really bitchy in some parts of this, but I can't deny that you've made a fairly good case against the guy. And your grievances are entirely justified. Then again there are three sides to this story: Your side, which paints him in a bad light. His side, which paints you in a bad light. The truth, which just makes everyone look and feel miserable. Breakups suck. I'll wish you better luck next time. Thank you for your honest response, but I've tried to give the information as plain as possible. I haven't made anything up, nor omitted things important to the dissolution to our relationship. I know you only have my word to go by, and you don't know me, but still I thank you.
I have to say, you sound really bitchy in some parts of this, but I can't deny that you've made a fairly good case against the guy. And your grievances are entirely justified. Then again there are three sides to this story: Your side, which paints him in a bad light. His side, which paints you in a bad light. The truth, which just makes everyone look and feel miserable. Breakups suck. I'll wish you better luck next time.
Originally Posted by Strife212 I was tempted to go to this expo, but ended up deciding not to. Have fun! Can I ask what site you'll be writing for? Originally Posted by Seika Do link us when your review/interview/whatever is up. I'm writing for the MCM Buzz website, so likely my articles will be up same day - but of course, I'll do write-up's of the day here and will link to what I've done Originally Posted by Laith You are meeting the Eureka dudes? I'm officially jealous. =3= I'm so worried about embarrassing myself, but I've been assured that they're a lovely bunch - I will, of course, confirm if this is true Originally Posted by ZidanReign COLIN FERGUSON I'M SO JEALOUS. It's totally not wrong to be GAR for colin right Nope. Not wrong to be GAR for him at all...I was - am - GAR for Salli Richardson-Whitfield, but largely because she was also Elisa Maza from Gargoyles <3 But of course, Laith, Zidan - as said, if you have a question you really want answered, I'll do my best to sneak it in...as long as it's 'above the belt' Originally Posted by Hen_Ichi Ohoh? Going as a member of the biz now. Very nice. good luck to thee! The good work in the UK must continue! Thanks dude - it's a few days away and my nerves are fraying...I haven't even put together my list of regular questions yet! It's all voluntary, but the experience is worth it
Ohoh? Going as a member of the biz now. Very nice. good luck to thee! The good work in the UK must continue!
COLIN FERGUSON I'M SO JEALOUS. It's totally not wrong to be GAR for colin right
You are meeting the Eureka dudes? I'm officially jealous. =3=
Do link us when your review/interview/whatever is up.
I was tempted to go to this expo, but ended up deciding not to. Have fun! Can I ask what site you'll be writing for?
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