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  1. Rafflesiac's Avatar
    Don't forget the sexually explicit pictures.

    They're like the Numb Left Arm of stalking.
  2. LoyaltL's Avatar
    Not enough. She needs to give you some sort of gift at this point for the death flag to be raised.
  3. aldeayeah's Avatar
    Yup, all those kids in wheelchairs will eventually heal. It is known.
  4. Apple's Avatar
    I'm pretty sure the lingering injuries thing is bullshit, m8. Unless you're dating an 8 year old I seriously doubt childhood injuries are still unhealed.
  5. Elf's Avatar
    Well, is there anything she likes to do?

    This is something that Roadbuster and I deal with a lot, and we've been married for six years. He's outgoing and likes to hang out with friends. I have social anxiety and can have panic attacks in large crowds.

    However there are things we like to do together. Like just going out and window shopping can be fun. Or if you have an art district in your home town park somewhere and walk up and down it. Take time to look at things and whatnot.
  6. KENTA's Avatar
    Stick it in her pooper.
  7. DezoPenguin's Avatar
    You're actually looking at two separate issues, from what I can tell:

    1) You like to go out and do things, while she doesn't.

    2) Her feeling more "friend" than "lover."

    The first problem can be dealt with. The second problem is considerably more serious. Have you talked to her about why she feels that way? What is it that makes her feel like a friend? Remember that time alone together can still be romantic, and still be a big production between the two of you, even if it's not "go out into the world" dating. Also look into things that are date-like but don't involve interacting with people (I'm thinking things in the "moonlit walks on the beach" kind of vein). Also remember that a quiet evening at home doesn't have to be "friends hanging out"-like; the one problem with such evenings is that it promotes casualness which can sometimes appear unromantic, so try to make a special deal out of those situations. But most of all, talk to her, and try to figure out why she's feeling this way.
  8. aldeayeah's Avatar
    well thank you very much
  9. Vagrant's Avatar
    Google"introvert extrovert dating tips". I'm sure all those female magazines know more about it than the beta nerds of BL.
  10. SeiKeo's Avatar
    Thread the needle but in her pants OP
  11. Imperial's Avatar
    I am far more outgoing than she is, and she's the type who likes her quiet alone time.

    But she has also brought up the fact that she feels less like a love and more like a friend sometimes.

    So I'm trying to split the difference. She likes cuddling up just the two of us. It's our go-to thing because she likes it so much. But then she feels like I'm going through the motions every now and then. Tricky needle to thread, that one
    Updated November 4th, 2014 at 05:36 PM by Imperial
  12. Enhance's Avatar
    Have you talked to her about it, maybe she has something she'd like to do? Make sure the issue doesn't exist solely in your head, too. As a mostly-introvert, I can't imagine a better love life than just spending quiet evenings together, and occasionally going out.
  13. Strife ❤️'s Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by aldeayeah
    Go see cool places together.
  14. Lycodrake's Avatar
    Maybe let your friends know that large parties aren't her thing, and have smaller gatherings?
  15. aldeayeah's Avatar
    Go see cool places together.
  16. Imperial's Avatar
    Great idea. Thanks, Ivan
  17. Ivan The Mouse's Avatar
    Dance with her. But only with you two and nobody else.
  18. Imperial's Avatar
    Quote Originally Posted by ItsaRandomUsername
    Actually, /hollow's in its 100% beta patch, which is just plain English for quality checking, which means people who read it send in grammar corrections that need fixing. Absolutely all story and minigame content is readable. And yes, Gil does use the youth potion to deage himself. Additionally, he's also the patron of several businesses in Fuyuki, such as
    Fate/hollow ataraxia spoiler
    Waku Waku Splash
    .
    Oh, hell to the yes

    I've been waning to mine HA for kernels of wisdom for years now. Sure, most of it is fanfic fodder, but there's the simple fact that I want to get to know Bazett and Avenger. She's been talked up in all sorts of fanfics and spinoffs like Prisma Illya, and for the guy who effectively ruined everything for everyone, Avenger isn't much more than a vague concept and a batch of spoilers to me.
    Updated September 16th, 2014 at 11:59 PM by Imperial
  19. ItsaRandomUsername's Avatar
    Actually, /hollow's in its 100% beta patch, which is just plain English for quality checking, which means people who read it send in grammar corrections that need fixing. Absolutely all story and minigame content is readable. And yes, Gil does use the youth potion to deage himself. Additionally, he's also the patron of several businesses in Fuyuki, such as
    Fate/hollow ataraxia spoiler
    Waku Waku Splash
    .
  20. Imperial's Avatar
    That is the upswing of it. I've been lifting for about three years without nearly enough to show for it. I finally started losing strength and size several months ago. This prescription could be the silver bullet I finally need to get truly swoll.
    Updated September 10th, 2014 at 12:24 AM by Imperial
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