These things have titles?

for a site that's basically a gathering of horny teenagers/20-somers, I'm surprised there isn't more of this stuff

Sagely advice.

Wait, there's more now?

I can't imagine ever having a long distance relationship.

Like the main perk of a relationship is that I get the exclusive rights to touch that person naked. What's the point otherwise.

LDR's are really fucking awful. Even if you still have those exclusivity rights it's just.....ugh. So bad.

Two more months.

Two more days
Then a little over a month, that I'll be busy having fun in fancy speak land

so have fun with that

The excitement is palpable.

True words Lilith.

It's very tough, but it is possible. I do see why people. People have things in common. Unlike what people say, having things in common are very good ways to make a connection with the opposite sex.
"You like X? So do I!"
People then get to know eachother, and as such, love can blossom.

Originally Posted by Kotonoha

I can't imagine ever having a long distance relationship.

Like the main perk of a relationship is that I get the exclusive rights to touch that person naked. What's the point otherwise.

http://dreamjb.net/2013/04/iphone-co...awear-beloved/
The future is here, and it's probably just like the real thing! I'm sure of it!

Everyone knows thats just gonna be used for ronery masturbating

Originally Posted by Nicktendonick

True words Lilith.

It's very tough, but it is possible. I do see why people. People have things in common. Unlike what people say, having things in common are very good ways to make a connection with the opposite sex.
"You like X? So do I!"
People then get to know eachother, and as such, love can blossom.

im not saying its impossible, just saying that forming a relationship through this particular route is going to result in one of the most difficult ones you can have
Not to say it can't be worth it, cus it TOTALLY can be
just giving a fair warning for those who can't handle that kind of stress and difficulty

I dunno, I feel like that is a lot easier than trying to stay together for the sake of your kids with an abusive alcoholic deadbeat. Like, LD is Hard and that is Legendary mode.

Little known fact. I could get up in the morning, drive 2 hours, go to MIT, find and molest Paitouch, and get back in time for supper after stopping for a hearty lunch at the Boston Beer Works. I just wouldn't because that would be wicked weird and I don't know Paitouch well enough for anything like that ever. Except the driving four hours for lunch at Boston Beer Works. It's pretty good.

I dunno, match.com is embarrassing to relate as a meeting point, low success rate and primarily populated by the overly desperate so...iunno, shouldn't they be somewhat similar?

...heh.

That's why I said one of the most difficult relationships, since abusive pretty much tops everything, and didnt really feel like going into that territory, or really feel it was relevant to the point I was making, but yeah =_=

And there are a lot of BLers that are relatively close. Just not a whole lot that want to interlock parts (or at least it seems that way)

Originally Posted by Tobias

I dunno, match.com is embarrassing to relate as a meeting point, low success rate and primarily populated by the overly desperate so...iunno, shouldn't they be somewhat similar?

...heh.

Both are embarassing
But I would prefer saying Match over ANIMU PORN FORUM

13uster, I think it's time we came out with it, it's ok, this is a safe place, we can be ourselves and announce our relationship.

But seriously, all you young lovers fools out there, take Lil's advice to heart, because it's some damn good wisdom.

"Forum for discussing the works of a Japanese Novelist" sounds better than Match.com if you're okay with being a weeb hipster.

Had one, after my gf moved, that didn't last three weeks back then. Though the feelings were there(at least on my side), it's just not the kind of relationship anybody can endure. It's really hard without being allowed to spend time with the other. Phone calls, skype and all that jazz ain't enough. Some people can pull it through and that's a real testimony of a real bond.

I don't think internet is the best way to get someone anyway.

Originally Posted by Daiki

Had one, after my gf moved, that didn't last three weeks back then. Though the feelings were there(at least on my side), it's just not the kind of relationship anybody can endure. It's really hard without being allowed to spend time with the other. Phone calls, skype and all that jazz ain't enough. Some people can pull it through and that's a real testimony of a real bond.

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I don't think internet is the best way to get someone anyway.

It really, REALLY isn't. But there are those rare instances that work. VERY RARE.
But its not some kind of magical combination of luck and good chemistry, its because they WORKED AT IT. VERY, VERY HARD.

I wouldn't say its my MAIN focus... but the few great things this forum has done for me is get my shit together and start looking towards my future rather than stagnating where I am. Now I'm focused on getting and Associates and then a Bachelor's. And After this thursday, I'm going to be focusing getting myself healthy and lean!

I wouldn't say this forum is for getting together, but its so far been the forum that's changed my life perspective and the encouraging "SUCK IT UP PUSSY AND GET THROUGH THE ROAD OF SHIT THAT IS LIFE."

So all in all, the forum has made me more proactive about my life. Weirder things have happened.

Sounds to me like someone wants exclusive BL OTP rights.

In all seriousness, I think everyone in here is a sensible adult who realises the difficulties of LDR and doesn't aspire for annual hand-holding and bragging rights on the internet.

It's also sooooo romaaantic!

Originally Posted by lilithsama

they WORKED AT IT. VERY, VERY HARD.

I have never worked hard at anything in my life and you know it.

Originally Posted by Leftovers

Sounds to me like someone wants exclusive BL OTP rights.

They already have that status.